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Memories Old And New

Many, many years ago my sister and I used to spend the whole of the summer holidays in Budleigh Salterton with our maternal grandparents.  The sound of waves sucking the pebbles back into the sea sent always awakens my memories of those days.  The red cliffs - I never understood why people always talked about white cliffs for me cliffs at the sea were always red; my grandparents’ beach house with the old tea tin filled with pear drops up on the shelf, and the hooks which housed our damp costumes so they would be dry for next time.  We never minded that there was no sand on the beach the sea and pebbles kept us occupied for hours.  Swimming; sitting on the shore line so that the sea pulled the pebbles from underneath us and sent our legs into the air; building stone castles; seeing how long we could stand on the stones that had been made hot by the sun; running down the big banks of stones after a storm only to find that our grandparents warning of we wouldn’t be able to get back up always came true, then crawling back up on our hands and knees taking an age as the pebbles moved beneath us.  The café where on sunny days we got our ice-cream and on colder days toasted teacakes and hot chocolate, my father seemed to always have a teacake even when the sun was out.   The house they lived in was still being built first time we visited and down its steep driveway would sit my grandmothers green mini, while the garage housed whatever new car my grandfather had got this year.

A few miles down the coast over the border and into Dorset and unknown to me at the time Hubby was spending many a happy summer holiday in Lyme Regis, the beach had sand when the tide was out, but we rarely visited Lyme, for us Budleigh was home from home. 

Today is Hubby and my second wedding anniversary, Hubby has to work today but for a surprise Hubby arranged that we would visit this old haunt together and share our old memories and make some new ones.  We stayed in Lyme Regis in a hotel overlooking the beach and the Cob, and were well looked after by the staff.  I don’t really remember much about Lyme, however it is quaint with some good shops, the bank manager certainly knew where we were!  The weather the first couple of days wasn’t too great but we finally managed a walk along ‘The Cob’ and sat in the sun watching the cormorants drying on the rocks. There is also a water mill which still produces some flour, but more of that at another time. 

 

 

 

 

Of course we visited Budleigh, even drove past my grandparents old house, a shiver went down my spine when there in the drive was a mini. 

 

 

 

For me no visit back to the area would be complete without a visit to Bicton Park, which seemed far smaller than I remembered it, I was glad the train still ran as while up at the Hermitage the rain started and we got back in the relative dry for a most enjoyable ‘cream tea’.  Then it was a wander through the glass houses as Hubby agreed with me that if money ever became no object we would have a Palm House just like the one at Bicton. 

 

 

Bicton Park 

 

 

 

For Hubby the caves at Beer were a must, and just as Bicton was new for him, Beer caves were new to me.  The caves were made by the mining of the rock and it is like some grand undercoft of a cathedral.  An added bonus that we weren’t expecting was that bats hibernate in the caves and some were still some greater horseshoes bats hanging like washing on a line and dotted around the caves lesser horseshoes too.  It was wonderful photo opportunity but as taking photographs of hibernating bats is prohibited one that had to pass us by.  Our guide Heather was a fount of knowledge and tales of the people and things that went on down in the caves and also in the surrounding area.

 

 

More from our travels tomorrow.

Forget Friday The 13th

Friday the 13th is a thing of history if you want to beware of a date make it 15th of April!

The son went out for a driving lesson, nothing strange in that you might think, but on his return I soon discovered that during the lesson he had managed to slip into 4th gear instead of 2nd approaching a roundabout and mounted the kerb puncturing a tyre.  The rest of his lesson was spent changing a tyre and then getting a replacement, which wasn’t quite the lesson he was expecting.

Then at 10:30 last night I get a phone call from the daughter telling me the car she is in has a puncture, they thought it just needed air, but by the time they reached a garage that actually had air the tyre had had it and was refusing to be revived.  I thought I was doing a mercy dash, however I must say I was impressed they had got has far has they had, they knew where to put the jack and had managed to loosen off three of the nuts but the finally one was just not going to budge and was now being stripped in vain attempts, it was less of a mercy dash and more of a confirmation that they needed the AA.

So a little warning to the world out there don’t get into a car with either of them if the date is 15th April, chances are you will end up needing a new tyre.

However from my point of view I now know that both should be capable of changing a tyre so I shouldn’t need to go rescue them again - okay so that is maybe a bit of wishful thinking!

Lily

Last Thursday I held a funeral for Lily, someone I didn’t know, which is not unusual.  While speaking to the family about Lily we discovered that not a lot was known about her early years, she was 90.  A lovely wooden box was brought out full of certificates and a mystery grabbed my attention.  She had been born in Govan and her birth certificate wasn’t anything out of the ordinary but there was another piece of paper a small baptismal certificate which was of a sort I had never seen before; in Glasgow at the time it was the common practise for the back of the birth certificate to hold the baptismal information, certainly if it was a Church of Scotland baptism; while Episcopal and Roman Catholic Baptism certificates contained more information.  This one didn’t mention a church just an address which was hard to make out, the signature of a cleric, and a date 3 months after she had been born.  The family were curious but not as curious as I was, I was sure there was a story to find and set about trying to find it as I worked on her funeral service.  Having done all I could on line, but having an incline of what I am likely to come across with a bit more digging, I now have plans for this my post Easter break to head off to the Mitchell Library (for those of you who don’t know the Mitchell Libary holds the archives for Glasgow) and see if I can find the final pieces of the puzzle. 

It is a while since I have delved into the Mitchell Library’s records, there is nothing like the smell of old paper and reading through the micro films of past papers and records to discover a world not that long ago which is so different to the world we live in today.  I know even now before I set off that while I will be searching for something from Lily’s past I will get distracted by other peoples stories along the way, but that is part of the joy of doing it.

The family will find out what I find out first, but with their permission I will also let you in blogland know, the result of my investigations.

The Rovers

Last night much fun was had at the Quiz Night with ‘The Rovers’ finally winning just ahead of ‘Average Jo’s’ and the ‘Dolly Burds’.  It soon became clear why they had won when being presented with fun winners medals their heads were too big to fit the ribbons over them - it should be said that the medals were actually meant for children’s parties and that might have something to do with it.  However the point had been made and some were quick to suggest that next time around they should call themselves ‘The Big Heads’!

Favourite Things

You know the song.  Yes the one from the Sound of Music, well I never fully understood a line from it, until today.  Today there was a tiny flurry of snow while I was outside and a snowflake landed on my eyelashes, it has never happened before, my glasses always used to catch the snowflakes before they could make it as far as my eyelashes, ever since I have been singing about ’snowflakes that land on my nose and eyelashes’.

Ask Away

Last week I got speaking to someone I didn’t know about things in general eventually, as always seems to be the case the subject turned to church and why I do what I do, now those questions are ones that I am quite used, however the conversation ended with a question which was new to me and which has over the past week been asked twice more, by two other people.  What is the question I hear you cry?  Well before I tell you that just a little extra information.

All three of these people have no personal knowledge of church, have never been except for the occasional wedding or baptism, none of them have attended a church funeral and their parents never went to church either.  Why the background information?  Well the question I was asked was if it was in it’s various forms - Can I just turn up at church on Sunday?  Is it okay for me to go to church? and the most telling; Do I need to ask the priest first before I can go to a Sunday service?

I am sure these people are not alone, and there are many more who have only ever attended church when invited to a wedding or baptism, and therefore are unclear about if that goes for regular worship too.  So why not invite someone to church this weekend, you never know it might be just what they were waiting for?

Fact Of Life

I have just received correspondence from the manufacture of my tumble dryer telling me that it is now two years old and it is a fact of life, that even the most reliable products break down (it might be a fact of life but I am not sure that is a good way to endorse their own products).  The reason for the letter was to suggest that I take out the insurance which I turned down on purchasing the tumble dryer and turned down again last year when they wrote telling me it was a year old and out of manufactures guarantee.

Through this blog I would like to give them a fact of life back.

The tumble dryer works just fine thank you and if I had have been paying your insurance for the past two years and signed up to pay it again this year it would have cost me as much as the tumble dryer did in the first place, and I would have paid you more than the possible quote you give if I should ever have to call out someone to fix it!

Beep, Beep, Beep, Beep

I really enjoy getting in ‘Baby’ at the moment, okay I always enjoy getting into her, but what is causing this extra joy at the moment is Simone White, she of the Beep, Beep song that was used on the Audi R8 commercial -

I am listening to her album in ‘Baby’ and it is one of those rare albums where there isn’t a bad track on it, last time I could say that was with Bat For Lashes - Fur And Gold.  Her voice has a wonderful hypnotic quality and her lyrics are thoughtful and quirky.  A couple of my favourites lines are the clever warning in from the song ‘The American War’ - ’The oyster chokes on its own pearl’ and ‘Rise and sing like a bird’ and ‘Home is the house you’ve built with your bones’ from the title track of the album ‘I Am The Man’, which is below courtesy of YouTube.

Dissolution - C J Sansom

That was the title of the Book that the Book Group were discussing and while the obvious was indeed the case, it was set during the Dissolution of the Monasteries in 1537.  The title also proved to be very true with regard to the people of the time and the characters in the novel.  Written by C J Sansom it is the first in the series of novels about Matthew Shardlake, a lawyer and supporter of the Reformation who is given the task by Cromwell of finding out what has been going on in the Monastery at Scarnsea in Kent.

Basically it is a ‘who done it?’ however it is also far more than that, as a historical novel it is well written and researched, it is also peppered with theology and the angst of trying to discern what God’s will actually is.  It is a human tale about a community of monks, their servants, Shardlake and his assistant and while it is set in the 16th century the tales it tells are as true and relevant today.  Power and money change people, they bring about corruption and deceit, and even when a cause seems right epiphanies can happen which turn everything upside down.

If you are looking for some light reading all of the Book Group would recommend it, if you know little about the period and are not really into reading heavy tombs on history, you will learn much as you follow Shardlake around the monastery cloisters and try like him to discover who murdered Robin Singleton.

Bahrain

Well yesterdays GP in Bahrain despite its initial excitement turned out to be a bit of a procession, still think that Massa should have been penalised for ignoring the yellow flag during qualifying, and would love to know just what caused Hamilton to run up the back of Alonso.  However the driver’s championship is being kept wide open this year and that can only be a good thing for F1, it is possible for anyone of 6 people to be leading the championship in three weeks time.

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