Archive for April, 2008

Things Aren’t Always What They Seem

While away we spied this, we thought oh dear someone will be in trouble for nearly driving that into the sea.

A little while later, once the camera was packed away so no after shots, we saw another lorry pass this one by and then the driver carefully back out and reverse the whole way along the breakwater that was being built.  It became clear that the driver was very skilled and had his vehicle in exactly the place he wanted it to be.

Life can be like that sometimes, we can see things from one angle not fully understanding what is going on, thinking even that there is trouble afoot, but the reality can be far from the case and with time or a different perspective we can see that things are in fact okay and going to plan.

Make me to know your ways, O LORD; teach me your paths.
Lead me in your truth, and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation; for you I wait all day long.
Psalm 25:4-5

Salisbury Cathedral

Spire from cloister

I had never been to Salisbury Cathedral before and what a joy it was, even though our visit was somewhat rushed. It is a splendid example of Medieval architecture, and the start of the restoration to the once colourful roof reminds me of an old fashioned carousel, in a good not a bad way, in case you were wondering.

The Nave

Restored Colours

One of the joys for me at least was the number of angels, both inside and out, here are just a few examples.

Pulpit Angel

Quire Angel

Rood Screen Angel

Stained Glass Angels

Angels, Mary and Jesus Above West Door

The rederos in the Chapel of St Michael and All Angels is magnificent!

St Michael and All Angels Chapel Rederos

We paid a quick visit to the chapter house too - no photographs allowed in there - one of the original copies of the Magna Carta is housed in that grand setting, the document itself however is small and rather unassuming. One day I hope to get back and spend some more time there.

Portland Castle

Of course no holiday for us would be complete without visiting a castle, and while we had plans to visit three in Devon it was Portland Castle in Dorset which ended up being the only one we saw.

Portland was built by Henry VIII and is still in tact. While Hubby and I decided that it could be made into a good home, we also decided that its situation wasn’t that great. It is in a great place for a castle built low with very thick rounded walls to make it harder to hit, but it is overlooked, and who would want a castle that the proletariat could see into?

Memories Old And New

Many, many years ago my sister and I used to spend the whole of the summer holidays in Budleigh Salterton with our maternal grandparents.  The sound of waves sucking the pebbles back into the sea sent always awakens my memories of those days.  The red cliffs - I never understood why people always talked about white cliffs for me cliffs at the sea were always red; my grandparents’ beach house with the old tea tin filled with pear drops up on the shelf, and the hooks which housed our damp costumes so they would be dry for next time.  We never minded that there was no sand on the beach the sea and pebbles kept us occupied for hours.  Swimming; sitting on the shore line so that the sea pulled the pebbles from underneath us and sent our legs into the air; building stone castles; seeing how long we could stand on the stones that had been made hot by the sun; running down the big banks of stones after a storm only to find that our grandparents warning of we wouldn’t be able to get back up always came true, then crawling back up on our hands and knees taking an age as the pebbles moved beneath us.  The café where on sunny days we got our ice-cream and on colder days toasted teacakes and hot chocolate, my father seemed to always have a teacake even when the sun was out.   The house they lived in was still being built first time we visited and down its steep driveway would sit my grandmothers green mini, while the garage housed whatever new car my grandfather had got this year.

A few miles down the coast over the border and into Dorset and unknown to me at the time Hubby was spending many a happy summer holiday in Lyme Regis, the beach had sand when the tide was out, but we rarely visited Lyme, for us Budleigh was home from home. 

Today is Hubby and my second wedding anniversary, Hubby has to work today but for a surprise Hubby arranged that we would visit this old haunt together and share our old memories and make some new ones.  We stayed in Lyme Regis in a hotel overlooking the beach and the Cob, and were well looked after by the staff.  I don’t really remember much about Lyme, however it is quaint with some good shops, the bank manager certainly knew where we were!  The weather the first couple of days wasn’t too great but we finally managed a walk along ‘The Cob’ and sat in the sun watching the cormorants drying on the rocks. There is also a water mill which still produces some flour, but more of that at another time. 

 

 

 

 

Of course we visited Budleigh, even drove past my grandparents old house, a shiver went down my spine when there in the drive was a mini. 

 

 

 

For me no visit back to the area would be complete without a visit to Bicton Park, which seemed far smaller than I remembered it, I was glad the train still ran as while up at the Hermitage the rain started and we got back in the relative dry for a most enjoyable ‘cream tea’.  Then it was a wander through the glass houses as Hubby agreed with me that if money ever became no object we would have a Palm House just like the one at Bicton. 

 

 

Bicton Park 

 

 

 

For Hubby the caves at Beer were a must, and just as Bicton was new for him, Beer caves were new to me.  The caves were made by the mining of the rock and it is like some grand undercoft of a cathedral.  An added bonus that we weren’t expecting was that bats hibernate in the caves and some were still some greater horseshoes bats hanging like washing on a line and dotted around the caves lesser horseshoes too.  It was wonderful photo opportunity but as taking photographs of hibernating bats is prohibited one that had to pass us by.  Our guide Heather was a fount of knowledge and tales of the people and things that went on down in the caves and also in the surrounding area.

 

 

More from our travels tomorrow.

Forget Friday The 13th

Friday the 13th is a thing of history if you want to beware of a date make it 15th of April!

The son went out for a driving lesson, nothing strange in that you might think, but on his return I soon discovered that during the lesson he had managed to slip into 4th gear instead of 2nd approaching a roundabout and mounted the kerb puncturing a tyre.  The rest of his lesson was spent changing a tyre and then getting a replacement, which wasn’t quite the lesson he was expecting.

Then at 10:30 last night I get a phone call from the daughter telling me the car she is in has a puncture, they thought it just needed air, but by the time they reached a garage that actually had air the tyre had had it and was refusing to be revived.  I thought I was doing a mercy dash, however I must say I was impressed they had got has far has they had, they knew where to put the jack and had managed to loosen off three of the nuts but the finally one was just not going to budge and was now being stripped in vain attempts, it was less of a mercy dash and more of a confirmation that they needed the AA.

So a little warning to the world out there don’t get into a car with either of them if the date is 15th April, chances are you will end up needing a new tyre.

However from my point of view I now know that both should be capable of changing a tyre so I shouldn’t need to go rescue them again - okay so that is maybe a bit of wishful thinking!

Lily

Last Thursday I held a funeral for Lily, someone I didn’t know, which is not unusual.  While speaking to the family about Lily we discovered that not a lot was known about her early years, she was 90.  A lovely wooden box was brought out full of certificates and a mystery grabbed my attention.  She had been born in Govan and her birth certificate wasn’t anything out of the ordinary but there was another piece of paper a small baptismal certificate which was of a sort I had never seen before; in Glasgow at the time it was the common practise for the back of the birth certificate to hold the baptismal information, certainly if it was a Church of Scotland baptism; while Episcopal and Roman Catholic Baptism certificates contained more information.  This one didn’t mention a church just an address which was hard to make out, the signature of a cleric, and a date 3 months after she had been born.  The family were curious but not as curious as I was, I was sure there was a story to find and set about trying to find it as I worked on her funeral service.  Having done all I could on line, but having an incline of what I am likely to come across with a bit more digging, I now have plans for this my post Easter break to head off to the Mitchell Library (for those of you who don’t know the Mitchell Libary holds the archives for Glasgow) and see if I can find the final pieces of the puzzle. 

It is a while since I have delved into the Mitchell Library’s records, there is nothing like the smell of old paper and reading through the micro films of past papers and records to discover a world not that long ago which is so different to the world we live in today.  I know even now before I set off that while I will be searching for something from Lily’s past I will get distracted by other peoples stories along the way, but that is part of the joy of doing it.

The family will find out what I find out first, but with their permission I will also let you in blogland know, the result of my investigations.

The Rovers

Last night much fun was had at the Quiz Night with ‘The Rovers’ finally winning just ahead of ‘Average Jo’s’ and the ‘Dolly Burds’.  It soon became clear why they had won when being presented with fun winners medals their heads were too big to fit the ribbons over them - it should be said that the medals were actually meant for children’s parties and that might have something to do with it.  However the point had been made and some were quick to suggest that next time around they should call themselves ‘The Big Heads’!

Favourite Things

You know the song.  Yes the one from the Sound of Music, well I never fully understood a line from it, until today.  Today there was a tiny flurry of snow while I was outside and a snowflake landed on my eyelashes, it has never happened before, my glasses always used to catch the snowflakes before they could make it as far as my eyelashes, ever since I have been singing about ’snowflakes that land on my nose and eyelashes’.

Ask Away

Last week I got speaking to someone I didn’t know about things in general eventually, as always seems to be the case the subject turned to church and why I do what I do, now those questions are ones that I am quite used, however the conversation ended with a question which was new to me and which has over the past week been asked twice more, by two other people.  What is the question I hear you cry?  Well before I tell you that just a little extra information.

All three of these people have no personal knowledge of church, have never been except for the occasional wedding or baptism, none of them have attended a church funeral and their parents never went to church either.  Why the background information?  Well the question I was asked was if it was in it’s various forms - Can I just turn up at church on Sunday?  Is it okay for me to go to church? and the most telling; Do I need to ask the priest first before I can go to a Sunday service?

I am sure these people are not alone, and there are many more who have only ever attended church when invited to a wedding or baptism, and therefore are unclear about if that goes for regular worship too.  So why not invite someone to church this weekend, you never know it might be just what they were waiting for?

Fact Of Life

I have just received correspondence from the manufacture of my tumble dryer telling me that it is now two years old and it is a fact of life, that even the most reliable products break down (it might be a fact of life but I am not sure that is a good way to endorse their own products).  The reason for the letter was to suggest that I take out the insurance which I turned down on purchasing the tumble dryer and turned down again last year when they wrote telling me it was a year old and out of manufactures guarantee.

Through this blog I would like to give them a fact of life back.

The tumble dryer works just fine thank you and if I had have been paying your insurance for the past two years and signed up to pay it again this year it would have cost me as much as the tumble dryer did in the first place, and I would have paid you more than the possible quote you give if I should ever have to call out someone to fix it!

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